GNO with Sierra Brock: Eyebrows, The Bare Minimum, and Trusting God

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I was the girl who hid in the trees with paper and pencil to write poetry. I was “that nerd” in Jr. High and early High School that Continue reading

GNO with Linda Tackes: Dating, Brisket, and Beyond Identity

 

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Linda has been a pediatrician in St. Louis for almost 20 years and loves her job and the families and kids she cares for Continue reading

GNO with Catherine Estes: Folding Towels, Crying in Public, and Reading the Bible

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Jesus revealed Himself to me in my thirties, entirely changing my life. Every time I see a Continue reading

GNO with Cathy Barnes: Spinning Plates, Urban Decay, and Loving Your Man

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I am a wife, mother, and a daughter of the King. God has blessed me with a rich and varied life. I have been a dancer, police officer and Continue reading

GNO with Jeanne Kuhlman: Angels, Sleep Deprivation, and Carolyn

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I have been married to Dexter for 45 years, have two married children, four grandchildren and am Continue reading

GNO with Stephanie Nelson: The "Rush", Sarcasm, and Identity

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Stephanie Nelson is a pop-culture nut, coffee snob, tree hugger, nail polish addict, Continue reading

Care

Each week, we write for five minutes, freely, on a one-word prompt. No time for process. We write quickly, then post, a flash-mob linking together at Kate Motaung’s site. It’s fun!
This week’s prompt:  CARE



I fished for a compliment and I didn’t get it, and I had to fight back tears.

Traffic and poor planning made me late, and my hands clenched in rage. 
On that very same day, boys got shot, people were tortured, and unborn babies were murdered… 
and I hardly paid attention.
God tells me to cast all my cares on Him. I used to think He was just being thoughtful… wanting to take my cares so that my burden could be lighter.  Continue reading

GNO with Molly Snyder: Skinny Jeans, Nap Time, and Cutting to the Chase

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I’m married to my best friend and am a stay-at-home-mom to two great kids. I live in St. Louis, and spend my free-time Continue reading

GNO with Paula Robinson: Wreck-It Ralph, Living La Vida Loca, and Maya Angelou

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I was born and raised in the suburbs of St. Louis, MO to farmer-ish parents. I’m married for 15 years to my life partner, Shawn, and Continue reading

GNO with Joan Kouba: The Army, Dementia, and Concerts

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I’m a wife, mom, and teacher who is striving to worship my Lord and Savior with music and by sharing what I have learned with others. Continue reading

GNO with Melanie Braun: The 3:1 Ratio, Spinning Out of Control, and Magic Erasers

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Melanie Braun is a wife to Marc and mom of 3 boys in St Louis. If she’s not driving someone somewhere, you’ll find her Continue reading

GNO with Debbie Doriani: Proportion, Food, Friends, and Lost-and-Found Boxes

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Debbie Doriani is married to Dr. Dan Doriani for 38 years, has 3 grown daughters, 2 Continue reading

GNO with Christan Perona: The Control Idol, Being a Trendsetter, and Body Image

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Christan Perona is the Director of Admissions at Central Christian School, a racially and socio-economically diverse academy in St. Louis. 
 
She writes about practical theology at Continue reading

GNO with Lisa Dobrich: Nerds, Flylady, and Baby Steps

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Lisa Dobrich is a mom to three wonderful teenage daughters and retired homeschool veteran of fifteen years. Continue reading

New

Each week, we write for five minutes, freely, on a one-word prompt. No time for process. We write quickly, then post, a flash-mob linking together at Kate Motaung’s site. It’s fun!
This week’s prompt:  NEW


What a brat. The kid was whiny, hyper, and disobedient. His mom seemed exhausted, shut-down, and  used to it.

She and I were both waiting in a small, echoey lobby for play practice to end. Clearly, she was there to pick up her oldest child and I was there to do the same for my youngest.

I watched her ineffectively and un-creatively try to change her young child’s behavior. “Stop,” she would say weakly to his back as he laughed and ran out of her reach.

“You said I could play on your phone!” he whined, looking around the room to see who was watching his performance.

“I told you… it ran out of battery, you can play tomorrow.” Her words were part of one, long, robotic sigh. Continue reading

GNO with Toodie Schaper: Birthday Suit, Writing a Book, and Big-Girl Panties

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My name is Toodie Schaper. Actually, my given name is Karen but I had a grandma from the South that at my birth exclaimed, “Oh, she looks like a little Continue reading

GNO with Julie Kraus: Fairytales, Fabuloso, and Friendship

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I love to cook…Love my family…I’m a new grandma and love serving the Lord as the cook at Continue reading

Because

Each week, we write for five minutes, freely, on a one-word prompt. No time for process. We write quickly, then post, a flash-mob linking together at Kate Motaung’s site. It’s fun!
This week’s prompt:  BECAUSE


Why do I read my Bible, pray, and go to church?
Why do I cook meals for my family and clean house?
Why do I teach my kids manners, good habits, and life skills?
Why do I care what Continue reading

This Moment in Time

 
 
This moment in time, this passing sand,
Falling through narrow glass,
Is a chance for rebirth, for starting afresh.
For this sand is tomorrow’s past. Continue reading

31 Days of Girls’ Night Out

I love Girls’ Night Out! I almost never pass on an opportunity to spend an evening talking, laughing, and sometimes crying with friends.And I’ve always wanted to gather all of the wise women I know at once and sit them down in my living room, so we could Continue reading

That One Kid

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As a teacher, I used strategies in the classroom to help distracted students pay attention. I sang, rang a bell, even stood on my chair, occasionally, to get their attention. And as a mom, I use similar strategies at home. I praise and reprimand my kids hoping that their siblings will also get the hint: “I really like the way Josh let everyone else go first…” I put my hand on my daughter’s shoulder to silently remind her to say thank you to her grandparents. And to really make a point Continue reading

Ready

Each week, we write for five minutes, freely, on a one-word prompt. No time for process. We write quickly, then post, a flash-mob linking together at Kate Motaung’s site. It’s fun!
This week’s prompt: READY. 

Over the years, I’ve started to believe that being “ready” means that my hard deadlines have been met and that my plans are air-tight.

I’ve taught my kids to “be ready” by having their teeth brushed, lunches packed, and shoes on. Continue reading

Twenty Years

As of last month, it’s been twenty years since my first-born was placed into my arms. It seems like yesterday, and so long ago at the same time.

I look at his tiny body in the picture and can’t believe that he is now a man: strong, talented, intelligent, sensitive, and godly.

And I look into the face of the young version of myself and remember. She is clueless about being a mother, but Continue reading

Whisper

Each week, we write for five minutes, freely, on a one-word prompt. No time for much planning or revising. We write quickly, then post, a flash-mob linking together at Kate Motaung’s site. It’s fun!
This week’s prompt: WHISPER. 

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Friends share secrets
Lovers promise hearts 
It’s the breathy talk of intimacy,
And it’s how God speaks to me. Continue reading

At The Edge

If I didn’t already have my shoes off, I would have removed them, for I felt I was on holy

ground. It was one of the last mornings of our vacation, and I was on a beach walk by

myself, but I was not alone.

With my very first step, I began thanking God for the opportunity to be there with my

family. Then as my mind wandered, I started talking to God about why He made the

beach the way He did and how our visits there impact us. And I started snapping pictures

to capture it all. Continue reading

When Across the Street Seems Too Far

Sadness blows slowly down our street this week because of the sudden and tragic death of a neighbor. He left behind a wife and two young-adult boys.

We’ve lived diagonally across the street from them for over sixteen years. And now, in their moment of greatest sorrow and need, I’m struck by how little I know them. Continue reading

Finish

Each week, we write for five minutes, freely, on a one-word prompt. No time for much planning or revising. We write quickly, then post, linking together at LisaJo’s site  
This week’s prompt: FINISH. 
 
 
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The Finish Line’s stretched thin.
Tightly strung, with tension within.
The runners strain and push hard,
Reaching out, and hoping to win. Continue reading

The Promiser

 
“…And so it was with the Healer. He opened my mind up to the idea of a heart transplant with promises of His own.

He drew me in with whisperings of my deepest longings…
 
And He had me at Love
 
…but I hung on His every word:  Life… Peace… Joy… Forgiveness
 
And with every whisper, I inched closer to the operating table.
 
But still, the promises weren’t enough for me to surrender…”

 
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Bloom

Each week, we write for five minutes, freely, on a one-word prompt. No time for much planning or revising. We write quickly, then post, linking together at LisaJo’s site  
This week’s prompt: BLOOM. 

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The bloom gets the attention.

It has the color, the shape, and the smell.

It gets the camera’s focus and the lover’s touch.

But the bloom isn’t worthy… Continue reading

The Playbook

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It’s just not there. I’ve looked so many times.

What do you say to your son when he gets cut from the team?

How should you respond when the full trash-can keeps getting forgotten?

Is it a sin to eat Oreos?

So many times, I’ve wished the Bible would speak more to the specifics of my life. I’ve often thought, “If God would just tell me what to say/do right now, I would obey.”

But He doesn’t. He doesn’t give us a script, action plan, or a menu.

I know, I hear you, reader. You’re saying if I’m “walking in the Spirit” and “abiding in Him” …I’ll just Continue reading

Belong

This post is part of a Five Minute Friday linkup. A one-word prompt is given and we write, freely, for five minutes, then post. This week’s prompt: Belong.

A quick question.

140 characters.

Just shoot me a text.

Just a short visit.

I won’t keep you.

I’ll make it quick.



We have been trained to take no time. Continue reading

The Individual Medley

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The coach chose him to swim an I.M., or Individual Medley, which is a 100-meter race where the swimmer does one lap of each stroke: butterfly, backstroke, breasttroke, and freestyle. A race that intimidates him and makes him doubt.

My third born, a boy, who has reached thirteen years in the blink of an eye, who gracefully straddles the beam of adolescence, who still says “Yes Mam” and hugs me everyday, who just started gelling his hair and caring about muscles, stood on the blocks. There were anxious fidgets, exaggerated exhales, and popping of knuckles. And the swimmers seemed nervous, too. Continue reading

Freedom

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I remember the first time I got in the car to drive myself. At age sixteen, there was nothing like being out from under authority, making my own decisions, and answering to no one… even if only for a short trip to the grocery.
 

I felt so independent with the radio blaring and only one hand on the wheel. I hung my arm out the window so it could ride the wind, warned the world about “The Grand Illusion” with Styx’s Dennis DeYoung, and peeled off the line a little too fast when the light turned green. No one could tell me to slow down, turn down, or settle down.
 
After I parked, I caught a glimpse of myself in the store window, strutting across the parking lot and swinging my keys.
 

And there, in my reflection, I saw freedom.
 

Young adults and young countries both have that look. Out from under the dictators of their lives, they can finally sing their own songs and wave their own flags. And strut their stuff.
 

We Americans feel so invincible with our secure borders and prosperity. We let our fat arms ride the wind, swing around our rights, and worship the images in our mirrors.
 
And why shouldn’t we feel great? We are so blessed to have our own soil, to safely worship in our own churches, to own our own homes, to pursue our own callings. We truly have the sweetest spot on earth.
 

But still, we are not free. And we know it.
 

We sing about “putting boots in their ass” and we dress in our flag’s colors, but no one admits that secure borders and dress blues don’t keep fear away.
 

We fly Old Glory and rise to pledge allegiance, but no one lets on that they are too weak to stand up to the winds of pressure.
 

Once a year, we go outside and shoot fireworks to light up the night sky, but inside and every day, we shoot-up or drug-up to avoid the pain of living in darkness.
 

From ten-thousand feet up, we are the picture of freedom. But the view from within our homes and our hearts reveals that we are trapped by terror, caged by culture, and enslaved to our addictions.
 
But this is not an American problem. It’s a human problem. All around the world, babies of all colors are born with a liberty bell ringing in their hearts, placed there by our Creator. We all have an innate desire for freedom and all that it offers.
 

Because God wants us to be free. All throughout the Bible, He holds freedom up as something good that He offers to all of us.
 

”For you were called to freedom, brothers.” Galatians 5:13a
 
But we have gravely misinterpreted the tolling in our hearts. Foolishly, we have been duped by the Grand Illusion. We listen to voices that tell us that the worst place to be is under someone else’s thumb, and we stop short of the freedom to which we are called. And we settle for a lesser version offered by a Prince of lies. 
 
Freedom is quiet, countercultural, and sometimes even looks like slavery. So we dismiss it. 

For the shiny keys in our hands, the anthems playing on our radios, the power of our engines revving beneath our feet…they all distract us from what’s more. From what’s better.
 

The process is necessary, I suppose. We must experience, to some degree, an imitation of freedom so that we know that it’s not what it claims to be. We are wise after a coming of age when we find out that the absence of authority isn’t freedom at all.
 

Not at all.
 
At sixteen, on the outside looking in, I thought I was the picture of freedom. But also at sixteen, I believed that I was the center of the universe. And my heart was far from being free.
 

But my Rescuer pursued, and offered me His freedom.
 

The freedom that comes not from taking up arms, but from One who laid down His life.
 

The freedom that waves not in a flag of glory, but in the blood-stained cloths found in an empty grave.
 

The freedom that sings not songs of power or pride, but of grace and humility.

The Way to this freedom is narrow and off the beaten path, but near. 
Freedom is found in the Bell Ringer. He is the Way. He is the Rescuer. 
 

Freedom comes through submission to the One who breaks through the grand, American, and human illusions to pursue His people across every wave of grain and purple mountain…
 

..so they may know real love, protection, and freedom.
“…you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.”
John 8:32



Linking up with (in)couragers

Lost

This post is part of a Five Minute Friday linkup. A one-word prompt is given and we write, freely, for five minutes, then post. This week’s prompt: Lost.
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A young athlete redefines himself as a son of the King after his health is lost.

A new mother learns to trust in Him when her ability to control is lost.

A workaholic engages with his family after his job is lost.

We clamor, grip, and strive to win, but usually, it’s in the losing that we find what we’re looking for. Continue reading

The Only One

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Recently, my pre-teen daughter went to a birthday party. When I picked her up, she got in the car and slumped on the seat, frowning. No “Hi Mom”, no “Thanks for picking me up”, no nothing.

“What’s wrong? Wasn’t the party fun?” I asked.


”Mom, I was, like, the only one, pretty much, without an iPhone.”

I exhaled, trying to blow out my frustration and away words that I didn’t want to say. 
You see, lately, I’ve been hearing “I’m the only one...” statements a lot from my kids Continue reading

Friendship on Purpose: A Letter to My Daughters

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Dear Daughters,

As you get ready to enter new schools in the fall, it’s normal for you to be anxious for things to go well.

We’ve thoughtfully planned your core classes, electives, and extra curricular activities.

We made a list of supplies and will scour the stores for just the right binders, backpacks, and notebooks.

We’ve budgeted and will shop carefully for outfits that are practical, appropriate, and expressive.

You are pretty much ready, except for one thing.

We haven’t done anything to prepare you to sift though a big, new group of people in the hope of making godly friends. Often, the friendships that you have in middle school and high school can influence you so much more than your classes, supplies, and clothes. Therefore, I’d like to offer some advice and encouragement, to be just as intentional about getting ready for this part of your new school year. You can begin now to prepare to make friendships. You can do this…on purpose. Continue reading

Release

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Every morning it comes streaming in with the sun.

The list of tasks, the demands, the deadlines, the expectations.

My enemy pumps it in. Filling up my space, invading my mind, pushing on my soul, taking away my breath.

The pressure.

I try to manage it with Continue reading

Messenger


Pheidippides was a hero in Ancient Greece. It has been told that he ran from Marathon to Athens in under 36 hours to deliver the news of a military victory over the Persians to the magistrates who were anxious about the results of the battle. He delivered the news, then collapsed to his death. 

Whether this story is true, or merely a myth, is debatable. But you can’t argue with the fact that it touches us all. Continue reading

Grace

I close my gym locker with a satisfying slam. The metal-on-metal sound matches the way I feel. I hate this, I think.

The long and lean beauty in front of me steps off the scale, then leaves the sliding weights in place for me to covet.

I roll my eyes and curse under my breath.